Anticipate the obstacle before it arrives
Rehearse what could go wrong so the setback finds you prepared, not ambushed.
Why it works
Holiday draws on the Stoic premeditatio malorum: imagining failure modes in advance so they don’t shock you and so you’ve already planned around them. Expected adversity lands far softer than unexpected, and pre-planned responses convert "what now?" panic into executing a plan you already made. It’s perception and action applied before the obstacle exists.
How to do it
- Before a plan, ask: what are the most likely ways this fails?
- For each, decide in advance what you’ll do if it happens (an if-then response).
- Proceed with the plan, now braced rather than blindsided.
Evidence
Overlaps with the studied "premortem" technique (prospective hindsight improves identifying failure modes) and with implementation intentions (if-then plans reliably improve follow-through). Both are real; the Stoic packaging combines them. (mechanistic)
The component techniques are supported; this combined practice isn’t tested as a unit. For anxious people, keep it bounded and solution-focused so it doesn’t spiral into worry.
Common mistake
Listing everything that could go wrong without deciding a response to each — which produces dread instead of preparedness. The plan, not the worry, is the point.
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More practices for The Obstacle Is the Way, in Practice
- Control your perception of the obstacle
The obstacle isn’t the problem — your interpretation of it is the first thing you can change.
- Find the advantage inside the obstacle
Ask what this obstacle makes possible that nothing else would — the way through is often in it.
- Take deliberate, persistent action
Perception sets you up; action moves you through — start where you are, with what you have.
- Use the will to endure what you can’t change
When perception and action run out, the will is how you bear what remains with dignity.
- Amor fati — love your fate
Don’t just accept what happens — treat it as exactly what you needed, and work with it.
Related concepts
- Stoicism, as a Set of Practices
The six exercises that turn the philosophy into a daily discipline
- Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It
The emperor’s private exercises, turned back into a daily discipline
- The Enchiridion, as a Handbook
Epictetus’ field manual, turned into trainable moves
- Seneca on Time, Made Practical
Treating time as the only wealth you can’t earn back
- Premeditatio Malorum, in Depth
The variants of negative visualization, and how to run each one safely